FAQ answers and Need
Please read, re-read, then read one last time before the big day!
💍 Wedding FAQs
👗 Is there a dress code?
There isn't a formal dress code. The bridal party will be in black tie and a blend of colours, but guests are warmly invited to wear whatever makes them feel their best.
One gentle request... there will be guest portrait opportunities in Mitzi's Lounge, so wear something you wouldn't mind seeing framed on your own wall for years to come! 📸✨
👶 Are children invited?
Absolutely! Children are very welcome at both the church ceremony and the wedding meal. (Although we know some parents may be looking forward to a child-free day! 😊)
As the evening celebrations get underway, we kindly ask that children are settled with sitters in their rooms before the speeches and dancing begin, as the evening reception will be adults-only. 🥂
🎁 Do you have a gift registry?
We've had a number of people ask whether we've created a gift registry, but we haven't.
We're delighted that so many of our family and friends are travelling to celebrate with us. If you would like to mark the occasion with a wedding gift, a contribution towards our honeymoon would be greatly appreciated. ✈️🌴
Above all, we can't wait to celebrate with you! ❤️
🚌 Is transport available from the Cathedral to Ballyseede? What about getting home afterwards?
We currently have a 25-seater bus booked from the Cathedral to Ballyseede, with a limited number of spaces remaining. If you'd like to use it and haven't already let us know, please get in touch with Susie.
We'll also be arranging taxis from Ballyseede to Killarney and surrounding areas in the early hours of the morning. Exact timings will be confirmed closer to the day. 🚖
🚗 Is there parking at the Cathedral?
Yes! There is plenty of parking available at the Cathedral for guests attending the ceremony.
🏨 Can I check into Ballyseede before the ceremony?
Yes. If you're staying in Ballyseede on the Friday night or Saturday night, you're very welcome to check in before heading to the Cathedral. This gives you the opportunity to freshen up, leave your luggage and settle in before the celebrations begin.
A Few Friendly Reminders
📵 Unplugged Ceremony
We would love for everyone to be fully present during the ceremony. Please keep phones, cameras and tablets tucked away until the photographer gives the signal outside the church. We promise to share plenty of professional photographs afterwards.
☔ Kerry Weather
As the locals say, Kerry can experience four seasons in one day. While we are hoping for sunshine, we recommend bringing an umbrella and a light layer or cover-up just in case.
⛪ Please Arrive Early
The ceremony will begin on time, so please allow plenty of time for parking, finding your seat and saying hello before proceedings begin.
🚗 Kerry Time vs Real Time
Please note that Google Maps and Kerry in July occasionally have differing opinions on journey times.
Killarney can be extremely busy during the summer months, so we recommend allowing extra time for traffic, tourists, cyclists, tractors, jaunting cars and other unexpected adventures.
The ceremony will begin on time, so please travel with a little extra breathing room.
🚌 Transport
If you have reserved a place on the Cathedral-to-Ballyseede bus, please ensure you are at the designated pick-up point in good time.
🕰️ Please check back on our Schedule & Itinerary page closer to the day. Final timings will be confirmed shortly, and we'd hate for anyone to miss a champagne or canapé. 🥂 Of course, if any major changes occur, we will update guests via Whatsapp/calls directly.
🚨 Finally...
If Killarney traffic defeats you, we will not be offended.
If your train, plane, automobile, childcare arrangements, sat-nav or the laws of physics mean that you miss the Cathedral or cocktail hour, we will not be offended.
Getting to Kerry can be an adventure in itself. We're simply delighted that you're making the journey to celebrate with us, and we'll be thrilled to see you whenever you arrive - even if it means skipping Killarney and coming straight to Ballyseede.